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Brigid
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Mon May 10, 2004 1:29 pm
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I dunno, it all depends on a lot of variables...now, I ask you, if someone starts calling you their girfriend or boyfriend, then that person goes out while you're sick and gets other people's numbers and calls them (but thinks you should feel better b/s she didn't answer), is that cheating, even if you don't actually consider that person your boyfriend/girlfriend??
Or is it just plain rude?
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Brigid
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Mon May 10, 2004 1:34 pm
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Oh yeah, and a handshake or a hug...a kiss on the cheek, forehead, platonic cuddling...it's all okay.
To me, it's only cheating if you are repeatedly going to that person and say, holding hands, flirting, kissing on the lips...anything blatantly sexual, or any expression of wanting to be with that person in a sexual kind of way.
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rwnugent
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Mon May 10, 2004 2:18 pm
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Yes i have cheated on sig. others. several as a matter of fact. who really cares? They never found out. However they also cheated on me only they were not sneaky enough to get away with it. Even when confronted about it they were indifferent. So does it really matter that i cheated on them?
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katinahat
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Mon May 10, 2004 2:45 pm
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I've never cheated on a bf before. When I'm dating someone, he is the only one for me. If he can't hold my complete interest, then we break up. It's just not respectful to cheat. If you want more than one person at a time, don't call yourself exclusive with anyone. Just my lame opinion.
I have yet to have a bf with the same philosophy as me. They all seem to think if I'm out of town and they want some, there is nothing wrong with getting it somewhere else. *sigh*
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runeblade
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Mon May 10, 2004 2:51 pm
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I agree with the anything more than a hug or kiss on the cheek. I wouldnt do it and I hope my sig other wouldnt either.
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rwnugent
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Mon May 10, 2004 3:08 pm
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I could care less if they flock or not. I'm sure there are people on here with high moral standards I just happen to be from a different area than most of you and I have gotten used to different type of people. If a woman doesn't want me to cheat then she will do what she has to to keep my interest. It's not hard really just don't be a selfish bitch.
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katinahat
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Mon May 10, 2004 3:41 pm
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I wouldn't call myself one of high moral standards... haha.. I just like a some loyalty in a "relationship" that's all.
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rwnugent
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Mon May 10, 2004 3:50 pm
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Make me happy and I am as loyal as you want.
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kd5fcy
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Mon May 10, 2004 5:07 pm
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| katinahat wrote: | | So none of you have ever given someone else more than a handshake or hug while you were dating? |
nope
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brtorgo
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Mon May 10, 2004 6:44 pm
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Iam a trusting person. also it depends on the situation. how long have they known eachother? is the dude gay? If she kisses a gay dude id say its not cheating.
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runeblade
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Mon May 10, 2004 7:39 pm
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I say if there is so called "cheating" in the extent that royce puts it i would say thats more of a fuck buddy situation rather than a relationship.
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rwnugent
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Tue May 11, 2004 10:36 am
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Thats your opinion Ryan... and it is wrong.
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Courtney
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Tue May 11, 2004 11:46 am
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I agree that anything more than shaking hands, hugging, or kissing on the cheek is cheating. I would even question platonic cuddling, not as downright cheating but still questionable.
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Ichiban
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Tue May 11, 2004 12:08 pm
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I agree with ryan.
If you cheat on someone, you don't really care about them.. except as a vagina, or a penis.
Cheaters, in my book, are worth nothing in a relationship.
Been cheated on too much I suppose.. -shrug-
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katinahat
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Thu May 13, 2004 10:50 am
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| Ichiban wrote: |
If you cheat on someone, you don't really care about them.. except as a vagina, or a penis.
Cheaters, in my book, are worth nothing in a relationship.
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I COMPLETELY AGREE!
If people have agreements that cheating is ok, I guess it's not really "cheating". But I could never devalue myself that much to let my sig. other fool around with other people. If it's me, it better be only me.
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